{"id":9906,"date":"2021-07-14T14:00:37","date_gmt":"2021-07-14T08:15:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.nepallivetoday.com\/?p=9906"},"modified":"2021-07-14T14:01:36","modified_gmt":"2021-07-14T08:16:36","slug":"misogyny-gets-air-time-nepalis-on-social-media-outraged-over-a-tv-show","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nepallivetoday.com\/2021\/07\/14\/misogyny-gets-air-time-nepalis-on-social-media-outraged-over-a-tv-show\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cMisogyny gets air time\u201d: Nepalis on social media outraged over a TV show"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Kathmandu<\/strong>: On the July 8 <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/eay-MstNs2Q?t=1630\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">episode<\/a> of the weekly comedy program What The Flop, guest Shankar BC, a popular choreographer working at Nepali film industry, talked about his long experience and how he got a chance to rub his shoulders with the movers and shakers of the industry.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For many, one particular incident in BC\u2019s telling stood out&#8211;for all the bad reasons. Days after the show aired, a <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/chhiringtamangg\/status\/1414604760905228294\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">snippet<\/a> of it was widely circulated on social media. It had to do with the controversial actor Bhuwan KC. One day, BC was assigned to choreograph a song that involved KC, who is known for playing romantic leads in the Nepali films of the 80s and 90s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThe song-and-dance sequence in question had a step that entailed hugging the actress and caressing her shoulders,\u201d BC told host Sandip Chhetri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cBhuwan Dai asked me to act out the dance step for him,\u201d BC went on. \u201cI did as told but he asked me to repeat it again and again. After the fourth time, he summoned me and asked, \u2018Did you know why I asked you to do the same step four times?\u2019. I replied, \u2018No\u2019. KC said, \u2018So that you can touch or hug the actress time and again\u2019.\u201d Both Chhetri and BC burst out in laughter.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Both the episode and BC\u2019s telling of it hasn\u2019t sat well with many Nepalis on social media who have pointed out its inherent misogyny, insensitivity and objectification of a woman\u2019s body.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201c[The] audacity to say this openly on-air and the nerve to make a comedy out of it!,\u201d Hima Bista, executive director at Women Lead Nepal, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/himabista\/status\/1414835198479405065\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">wrote<\/a> on Twitter. \u201cMisogyny getting air time is how we normalize day-to-day sexism<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/disgusting?src=hashtag_click\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> #disgusting<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/BeResponsible?src=hashtag_click\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> #BeResponsible<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-twitter wp-block-embed-twitter\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Disgusting, but he exposed Bhuvan KC and his attitude too! \u2639\ufe0f\u2639\ufe0f<\/p>&mdash; Dr Nirmal Kandel (@kandelnirmal) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/kandelnirmal\/status\/1414838714300354562?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">July 13, 2021<\/a><\/blockquote><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>For another Twitter user, Dr Nirmal Kandel, the episode was a revelation. \u201cDisgusting, but he exposed Bhuwan KC and his attitude too!,\u201d he<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/kandelnirmal\/status\/1414838714300354562\"> tweeted<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>The episode and BC\u2019s telling of it hasn\u2019t sat well with many Nepalis on social media who have pointed out its inherent misogyny, insensitivity and objectification of a woman\u2019s body.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>KC is a man with a chequered past. A year ago, fellow actor Samragyee RL Shah <a href=\"https:\/\/kathmandupost.com\/art-culture\/2020\/07\/02\/harassment-is-pervasive-in-the-film-industry-and-anyone-who-speaks-out-is-blacklisted\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">alleged<\/a> KC of sexual harassment, though she didn\u2019t name him, in a series of Instagram videos. KC was quick to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/bhuwankaycee\/posts\/10157387229957335\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">respond<\/a> in words that many thought was unbecoming for an actor of his stature.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After the latest episode, many have&#8211;rightly&#8211;called out KC, the host and BC. Musician Samriddhi Rai was especially pithy in her remarks. \u201cIf they\u2019re openly discussing this on national media, imagine what stories they must be sharing when the cameras go off?,\u201d Rai <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/samriddhirai13\/status\/1414844475868811285\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">tweeted<\/a>. \u201cDisgusting to say the least. And the laughter at the end says it all. Disappointed but not surprised.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-twitter wp-block-embed-twitter\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">If they\u2019re openly discussing this on a national media, imagine what stories they must be sharing when the cameras go off? Disgusting to say the least. And the laughter at the end says it all. \ud83e\udd26\u200d\u2640\ufe0f Disappointed but not surprised. <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/BlCS9yLpcg\">https:\/\/t.co\/BlCS9yLpcg<\/a><\/p>&mdash; Samriddhi Rai (@samriddhirai13) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/samriddhirai13\/status\/1414844475868811285?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">July 13, 2021<\/a><\/blockquote><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>None of the involved parties have made a statement yet. Speaking to Nepal Live Today, BC made a brief remark. \u201cI have already talked to Bhuwan dai about it. I don\u2019t want to talk about it anymore,\u201d he said, before abruptly hanging up.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kathmandu: On the July 8 episode of the weekly comedy program What The Flop, guest Shankar BC, a popular choreographer working at Nepali film industry, talked about his long experience and how he got a chance to rub his shoulders with the movers and shakers of the industry.&nbsp; For many, one particular incident in BC\u2019s [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":15,"featured_media":9919,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9906","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-arts","category-top-stories"],"acf":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nepallivetoday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/What-the-flop.jpg?fit=1280%2C720&ssl=1","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pcWLTd-2zM","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nepallivetoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9906","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nepallivetoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nepallivetoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nepallivetoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/15"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nepallivetoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9906"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nepallivetoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9906\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nepallivetoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9919"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nepallivetoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9906"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nepallivetoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9906"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nepallivetoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9906"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}